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I’m done with perfect

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“I don’t have time for perfect.” Perfect shows up disguised as virtue – a noble ideal –  but I’ve found it’s the enemy of the possible.   It persuades me to endlessly fiddle and fine tune, and when I’m lured into its vortex I never finish what I started out to do. Perfect tells me I’m not good enough, …

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Life Coach | The Weekly Standard

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I first met Harvey nearly 20 years ago, introduced by a colleague who had written an article about this latecomer to baseball coaching who had never played the game at the professional level but nonetheless won a World …

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What is Your Mind Actually Good At?

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Do you feel that your mind is good at certain types of mental challenges and not as good at others? What kinds of thinking do you excel at? Maybe you’re really good at spelling, but not so good at math. Or perhaps you are good with concepts but not with logistics. How is your mind wired? Understanding what kind of thinking you are naturally good at can help you …

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Spiritual Small Bites: Doubt

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Doubt is one of the great absurdities of the ego. I’m not talking about doubting ideas and conjecture. There are lots of ways that questioning the words of another are important with so many people speaking falsities and half-truths.No, I’m talking about when doubt arises in the face of what you are actually experiencing. I’m talking about how people doubt their own truth and their own pain.For instance, a powerful memory re-emerges, and the person doesn’t want to believe it. When someone remembers repressed childhood trauma, it often upsets their ideas of their family life, who their parents and siblings are, …

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Get good

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“It’s a simple and generous rule that whatever you practice you will get good at.” – Elizabeth Gilbert   Practice more. Practice with intent. Find and express your power in practice.   It’s not enough to merely go through the motions. You have to practice with intent, with discipline, with an end in mind.   Many go through half-hearted motions and fail to get good. But you’re different. You push and drive and cultivate the positive habit of practice. And…